Manifesting The Life You Desire by Mauriana Calhoun
A way to support, and share the work of the people I collaborate with, is by sharing their work here with my readers. Today I am sharing one of the most fabulous Sex- Preneurs I ever met, Mauriana Calhoun. She is one of our speakers at the Sexual Healing Summit, which will happen on the 14th of August on Zoom.
Let’s read, shall we?
Early rising, going to bed late, working a 9 to 5 that you hate, so that you can get that paycheck at the end of every pay period. And still not being able to afford the best health care for you and your loved ones. Having to say NO to events/vacations with your best friends because of financial limitations.
Don’t you want to say FUCK IT to all those situations?
Then I have good news for you, and you can. And trust, you need “Fuck It” Into Existence money. My formal definition of “FUCK IT” money is any amount of money allowing the infinite perpetuation of wealth necessary to maintain your desired lifestyle, without needing employment, only long-standing, genuine relationships.
I will present five major keys to how I became a Sex-preneur®. Each key will unlock a new knowledge gem, taking you one step closer to achieving your own version of “FUCK IT” status.
If you want to be free to do whatever you want, whenever you want, wherever you want, with whomever you want, for as long as you want, without having to worry about money, you need “FUCK IT” money. So let’s find out how we can get it, shall we?
Allow yourself to Visualize What Your “FUCK IT” Lifestyle Looks Like & Write It Down!
You can not hit the targets of which you can not see. It’s really just that simple; therefore, I suggest that you make your own, shall I say, “FUCK IT” list. Allow yourself to drift off into the future, where you have true Fuck it” money. Perhaps imagine yourself living like a Hollywood movie star. What would your ultimate lifestyle look like? How much would it cost you to live that lifestyle yearly? Now here is my own list, which I would not normally disclose, by the way:
Luxury Condo: $160,000
Sports Cars: $36,000
Exotic Vacations (every quarter of a year): $40,000
52 extravagant meals (at $200 each): $10,400
Fencing lessons once every week ($75 each): $3,900
Name brand clothes (at $3,000 per month): $36,000
Photography/Tech gear: $10,000
Maid service: $26,000
Lavish Holiday (Christmas): $20,000
Lavish birthday: also $20,000
One Entertainment event (per month): $6,000
52 spa treatments ($100 each): $5,200
Flight lessons and Rental: $50,000
Limousine rides: $5,000
Random bills: $50,000
Buy Whatever I Want Money: $100,000
My “Dream Lifestyle” costs me approximately 640K per year.
This is a lot of money but, obviously, some people manage to spend way more than this. Let me be clear on this point, and I pay for the freedom of Choice and Quality, not Prestige. What’s important to know this year is that you probably don’t need as much as you think to live your ultimate lifestyle. As you can see that I must work really hard to get rid of that 640k. Alright, now that we have something to strive for, which hopefully gives us motivation, let’s see what we can do to make this ultimate lifestyle possible.
Key Number Two
Know the Difference Between the Slow “FUCK IT” Way & the Fast Way to “FUCK IT”
There are two proven ways to achieve your FUCK IT status: Slow and fast. The Slow Way is the traditional way: Build a nest egg, slowly, by saving as much as possible of your income, and hopefully, when you’ve retired in, say, 30 to 40 years, you’ve accumulated enough money in this nest egg that it can support your Hollywood lifestyle for the remaining years of your life.
This is the proven method that you’ve probably had shoved down your throat by your parents, grandparents, your older siblings, high school teachers, and vocational tech instructors while growing up. For me, there are two (2) main obstacles that come with this method:
1) Well, it’s slow.
2) You Lack Control
Think about it: The source of your income will always be dependent on an employer. You are dependent on a Bank to grow that money for you.
Now, of course, you won’t get laid off. That would never happen to you. But, why take your chances when you can take the Fastway.
The first way is to build your own automated income vehicle. This vehicle should generate money for you without consuming your time when it generates the same amount of money as your “FUCK IT” lifestyle from the “Key #1” Lifestyle Costs.
Now, riddle me: Why isn’t enough money to go around when money is printed every day? Why are so many people unable to make the money they need to live their “FUCK IT” lifestyle?
It’s because they get sucked into the latest money-making schemes and lose Focus. If last month was selling products from Amway, this month is learning a bit about cryptocurrencies or Forex, and you’re already thinking about starting a clothing business next month… you know what I mean.
Yet, getting rich is simple.
If you choose to create a business as your vehicle, here’s the secret spell: Have a clear vision, deliver a ton of value to people. And solve a lot of problems! It’s that simple, and yes: It IS Simple. The problem is that people don’t like simple they want the magic pill that will do all the work for them. Therefore they become opportunity seekers jumping from one hot money-making scheme to the next.
Take the health industry. The magic to building a great physique, for example, is to eat a proper diet, sleep, have sex, workout out some more, and repeat.
It’s that simple, yet people waste so much money on infomercial products, fancy equipment, the latest programs, fat burners, you name it.
Now take all the rich people on the Forbes list as a latter example. While you may not deem them the world’s sexiest men & women (Okay, maybe Michael Jordan), I dare you to find a single one of them who’s become rich through some hot money-making scheme.
Key Number Three
Focus Your Energy on One Vehicle At a Time
You’ll never make “FUCK IT” money jumping from one thing to another without mastering the first, not even close.
Key Number 3.5: Stop Taking Shortcuts! Avoid them like the plague. Now it’s time to discuss how you should direct that focused energy of yours.
Key Number Four
Always Remember the 9 Characteristics of an Ideal Business
Before you start to spend your focused energy, make sure you choose a venture where your manifestation frequency is high, increasing your success of making as much money as possible. Your business(es) should fulfill these 9 Needs:
1) Learn What You Love, Love What You Do: Doing something only for the money is okay, but it’s short-sighted: manifestation at the lowest frequency. Do a business where you have at least some interest. You’ll be much more motivated and, more competitive, that way.
2) Stable, Growing, Long-Term Demand: Those that settle end up with arrows on their backs. Challenge yourself: competition is good; it gives you the best cue you can get, that there’s money to earn in that market
3) Be Portable: This allows you to say “FUCK IT” to the leash, which keeps you tied to a certain location. How does working from the beaches in Punta Cana sounds to you?
4) High-Profit Margin: Low-profit margin means no room for error; You Need Room For Error.
5) Scalability: If there is essentially no difference in effort on your side to sell 100 instead of 10 units of your product: you have a scalable business. Since automated income is what you strive for, this is a prerequisite, and it allows you to dissociate time spent and income earned.
6) Low Start-Up Costs: If there is a need for co-investors already from the get-go, it just makes the whole start of the process much more complicated than necessary. Avoid this, especially as a beginner.
7) Requires little or No Staff: Sex-preneurs prefer contractors over employees because they cost less hassle.
8) Low Overhead: Avoid costs that aren’t directly tied to income. Think about using Affiliates and Contractors as much as possible
9) Money Coming In While You Sleep: Again, if you ever want to achieve Freedom, you must separate time spent and income. as mentioned before, most scalable businesses fulfill this.
I might be cutting off my own hand, but being a Sex-preneur typically fulfills all nine characteristics. So, if you ever decide to use your erotic capital in cyberspace, after Key Number 5, a “thank you” will suffice.
Key Number 5
The Seven (7) Golden Rules to Cyber Manifestation
Okay, so we’ve established that an internet-based business often fulfills all the characteristics of an ideal business. Naturally, this is why some sex-preneurs prefer “Camming” or selling their erotic art (whatever medium it may be) online. The next step will be to focus your energy on what you should prioritize, on or offline.
1) Watch The Market: If you ever want to find out when & where money is being made, then look no further than when & where money is being spent.
2) Create An Easy-to-Navigate Website or Social Media Platform, That Sells: The funnel (i.e., website) is not a brochure. It’s a 24/7 virtual salesperson.
3) Build a Business, Not a Moneymaker: Don’t focus on quick money deals. Focus on assets such as customer lists, products, and brands.
4) Create Multiple Income Streams In One (1) Business: Not Diversified Businesses. Serve the needs of One (1) group of people to the greatest extent possible. Avoid jumping from market to market.
5) Use Your Personality to Sell: People do business with people they know, like, and Trust. Someone that does an awesome job at this is Ms. Nina Galy herself! You can find her on Instagram at @ChampagneRoomLA & @NinaDoesTheMost. She was Killing It and deemed a Certified Sex-preneur!
6) Leverage the Time and Resources of Others: Outsourcing is one of the most powerful tools there is. You only have 24 hours a day, but through outsourcing, you can make that seemingly static variable a scaleable one, creating more time and opportunity to invest in yourself.
7) Position Your Business for Automatic Growth: Last but Never Least – Automate As Much As Possible! There’s a lot of inexpensive technology available for running a business, such as automated emails and chatbots.
So, let’s reflect on how we physically channel our energy to manifest the life we desire: Write Down your dream lifestyle, and determine how much money you must make a year to have true “FUCK IT!” money, Set Goals. Choose the Fast way to wealth, not the slow one. Don’t be a “Jack-off of All Trades”: Jumping from one get rich scheme to the next is a surefire way to get you back on the hamster wheel, further and further away from your “FUCK IT!” lifestyle. Don’t make it more complicated than it is: Have a Clear Vision, Deliver Value, and Keep Your Energy Focused. Choose a business where Your chances of manifesting success are as high as possible, and Follow the Seven Golden Rules of Cyber Manifestation. The keys are simple, FUCK the over-complication of living your best life, and Your Magic is Real. The question is: how much do You believe in it?
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About Mauriana Calhoun
towards sexual freedom and enlightenment: studying all forms of sexual orientation and understanding her own!
psyche from western teachings and actualizing that she was, in fact, born to be a
Sexpert. Several life events build a path that led her to become a Sexologist and hesitant, yet hopeful, future as a sex worker.
psychology of sex. Sought to become a top earner and multifaceted provider.
Annually grossing six figures consistently, her ownership of her body, after constant
industry ridicule and personal misunderstandings, she decided she wanted to
change the perception of sex workers, working as a Sexpert & Sexologist, and help hundreds of people to find the same freedom and understand that she once sought on her own.
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